Hi @cathycrochet
Great question about sowing and growing ornamental grasses from seed. You're right to be confused, as grasses can be a bit tricky to germinate, which is why all of the advice is ridiculously broad and pretty much useless for a new gardener!
The reason why the instructions are so vague is because ornamental grasses take a lot longer to grow from seed than annuals, vegetables or other perennials. They can take anywhere up to 6 weeks to germinate, in my experience. So you have to be patient. Then when they do, it's another waiting game before pricking them out. I wait at least 2-3 weeks once they have germinated before potting them on, as all ornamental grasses are relatively slow to start.

How to sow Mexican feather/Stipa tenuissima grass
1. Choose the Right Time & Stratify
Sow Stipa tenuissima seeds indoors in late winter to early spring, typically between February and April. This allows the seeds to germinate and grow before being transplanted outdoors. If you are worried about stratification, put the seeds in the fridge, in their packet for 2 weeks before.
2. Prepare the Seed Tray or Pots
Fill a seed tray or individual pots with a well-draining seed compost. Lightly tamp down the compost to create a level surface.
3, Sow the Seeds
Sprinkle the Stipa tenuissima seeds evenly over the surface of the compost. Since these seeds require light for germination, do not cover them with soil. Press the seeds gently into the compost using a flat board or your hands.
https://youtu.be/DICGT44SMSs
4. Add a Thin Layer of Vermiculite on top
Sprinkle a very fine layer of vermiculite or horticultural sand over the seeds. This helps to anchor the seeds and maintain consistent moisture levels. It also allows you to spot the tiny germinating Mexican feather grass seedlings easily.

5. Watering Stipa seeds
Water the seeds gently using a watering can with a fine rose attachment or put the seedling tray into a tray of water. Ensure that the compost is evenly moist but not waterlogged.
6. Cover with Plastic Wrap or Propagator Lid
Cover the seed tray or pots with clear plastic wrap or a propagator lid to create a humid environment, promoting germination. I use a piece of glass that I can clean and reuse. This also helps to retain moisture.
7. Place in a Warm Location
Position the seed tray or pots in a warm location where they receive a lot of sunlight. A temperature of around 18-24°Cis ideal for germination. i.e a greenhouse or window ledge is fine.
8. Germination Period
Stipa tenuissima seeds typically germinate within 14 to 21 days. However, I've known them to take 6 weeks to germinate, so don't panic or throw them out after a month. Once the seedlings have emerged and are large enough to handle, after 2 weeks of germinating, they can be transplanted into larger pots or directly into the garden.
9. Transplanting
When the seedlings have developed a few true leaves, transplant them into individual pots or into the garden. Choose a well-draining, sunny location for outdoor planting.
https://youtu.be/seGiNYRhaZE
10. Harden Off
Before planting outdoors, gradually acclimate the seedlings to outdoor conditions by exposing them to increasing amounts of sunlight and reducing protection over the course of a week.
11. Planting Outdoors
Plant Stipa tenuissima in well-draining soil in a sunny location. Water regularly until the plants are established.

I hope that helps you Cathy!
All the best
Lee Garden Ninja
Hi @cathycrochet
Great question about sowing and growing ornamental grasses from seed. You're right to be confused, as grasses can be a bit tricky to germinate, which is why all of the advice is ridiculously broad and pretty much useless for a new gardener!
The reason why the instructions are so vague is because ornamental grasses take a lot longer to grow from seed than annuals, vegetables or other perennials. They can take anywhere up to 6 weeks to germinate, in my experience. So you have to be patient. Then when they do, it's another waiting game before pricking them out. I wait at least 2-3 weeks once they have germinated before potting them on, as all ornamental grasses are relatively slow to start.

How to sow Mexican feather/Stipa tenuissima grass
1. Choose the Right Time & Stratify
Sow Stipa tenuissima seeds indoors in late winter to early spring, typically between February and April. This allows the seeds to germinate and grow before being transplanted outdoors. If you are worried about stratification, put the seeds in the fridge, in their packet for 2 weeks before.
2. Prepare the Seed Tray or Pots
Fill a seed tray or individual pots with a well-draining seed compost. Lightly tamp down the compost to create a level surface.
3, Sow the Seeds
Sprinkle the Stipa tenuissima seeds evenly over the surface of the compost. Since these seeds require light for germination, do not cover them with soil. Press the seeds gently into the compost using a flat board or your hands.
4. Add a Thin Layer of Vermiculite on top
Sprinkle a very fine layer of vermiculite or horticultural sand over the seeds. This helps to anchor the seeds and maintain consistent moisture levels. It also allows you to spot the tiny germinating Mexican feather grass seedlings easily.

5. Watering Stipa seeds
Water the seeds gently using a watering can with a fine rose attachment or put the seedling tray into a tray of water. Ensure that the compost is evenly moist but not waterlogged.
6. Cover with Plastic Wrap or Propagator Lid
Cover the seed tray or pots with clear plastic wrap or a propagator lid to create a humid environment, promoting germination. I use a piece of glass that I can clean and reuse. This also helps to retain moisture.
7. Place in a Warm Location
Position the seed tray or pots in a warm location where they receive a lot of sunlight. A temperature of around 18-24°Cis ideal for germination. i.e a greenhouse or window ledge is fine.
8. Germination Period
Stipa tenuissima seeds typically germinate within 14 to 21 days. However, I've known them to take 6 weeks to germinate, so don't panic or throw them out after a month. Once the seedlings have emerged and are large enough to handle, after 2 weeks of germinating, they can be transplanted into larger pots or directly into the garden.
9. Transplanting
When the seedlings have developed a few true leaves, transplant them into individual pots or into the garden. Choose a well-draining, sunny location for outdoor planting.
10. Harden Off
Before planting outdoors, gradually acclimate the seedlings to outdoor conditions by exposing them to increasing amounts of sunlight and reducing protection over the course of a week.
11. Planting Outdoors
Plant Stipa tenuissima in well-draining soil in a sunny location. Water regularly until the plants are established.

I hope that helps you Cathy!
All the best
Lee Garden Ninja
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